What kind of practice often leads to a state of silence? Why do I feel like my friends are becoming fewer and fewer? Why is the biggest trick in dealing with people sincerity? Why would I rather stay in my study reading than talk to others? In fact, highly sensitive people, when they awaken to a certain extent, find that after chatting with many people for a bit, they don't want to continue. Because they can see through others using their false selves in conversation, they can observe others chatting with their dreams and fantasies. Because they are highly sensitive, they instantly lose interest in chatting; they often don't know whether what their chat partner is saying is true or false. The chat partners think too deeply, and much of what they say is nonsensical, either indulging in their fantasies or expressing their own desires. You want to play me for a sucker, I want to play you for a sucker—all driven by desire. So what are you chatting with them about? It’s not pure; it's just a waste of your own time, right? With that time, you might as well read some classic books. At least chatting with ancient people can lead to genuine content; at least the other party is sincere. Often, in our daily conversations, it seems like two people are chatting, but essentially, six people are involved in the conversation. A truly spiritual and highly sensitive person can instantly capture these six people, which are my self in your eyes, your self in my eyes, the true self, and the real self, alongside your self in my eyes and the real you. As you chat, you discover the essence of what the other person is saying and their intentions: are they chatting with their true self or their false self? Are they chatting from a low dimension or a high dimension? Are they chatting sincerely or insincerely? It becomes clear at a glance. However, many counterparts are lost in thought; they don't even realize their own thoughts. They believe they are sincerely engaged in the conversation. In fact, it’s either for show or their own fantasies, or baseless judgments. This leads to a point where they no longer want to chat or perform. Even if they continue the conversation, it’s just to consider the other person's emotions, providing emotional value and engaging in superficial chatting. You notice that in our youth, we often have friends from afar; wine flows freely among understanding companions, and we are lively. However, when a person truly awakens, you find that much of the excitement is just a resonance of foolishness, a resonance of the small self, or a resonance of prejudices—meeting too late. But truly breaking many connections, you'll chat more with your true self. While you are being genuine, if the other party is still chatting with the self they see in their eyes and the self they see in you, you’ll find such chats utterly unnutritious; they either gossip or engage in binary opposing thoughts, but not being trapped is the truth of the world. Those things are either about discussing macro international situations or some superficial topics. Or they maintain their image in the eyes of the other party, holding back in conversation, feeling very restrained throughout. Or they are very self-righteous, thinking they understand the other person well, and making biased judgments while chatting. A highly sensitive person hears this and just wants to slip away; with that time, they might as well go home to water their plants, or spend time with their cats, dogs, or children. It feels more real. Because at least the other party is sincere, you are more willing to invest time in genuine things; you don’t want to accompany those who are fake and engage in a charade. Thus, highly sensitive people generally have fewer friends; many might think they are aloof, but it's not that—they are too awake, and there are too many fake people around. They used to be sincere, but they find that there are too few people who can connect with that sincerity, and sometimes that sincerity can be hurtful. You can't say in front of others, 'What you just said was all your household stuff; you didn’t start.' If the other party doesn’t have that realization, they might feel insulted, which can be quite hurtful. Ultimately, it evolves into many highly spiritual people's catchphrase becoming, 'You are right.' #Token of Love广场打CALL赢门票# #加密市场反弹# #美联储7月会议纪要#

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