Blaming parents will definitely raise angry children, who are good at shifting responsibility onto their kids. Parents say, "This is your fault," and "That is also your fault." When you keep blaming, you are actually creating a version of yourself; you are creating an opposite of yourself. Children will inevitably replicate your behaviors; no one can survive under long-term oppression, denial, and blame. So what about the child? At first, when they have no energy, they will bear this responsibility, but over time, they will not be able to withstand it. The responsibility will have to shift back to the parents, as this is the most basic defensive mode of a person. Therefore, in the end, within this family, there is mutual blame and shifting of responsibility, where everyone complains, and everyone pushes all the responsibility onto others, resulting in an atmosphere that becomes an accepted norm within the family.

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